As a bright young girl, Ellie Laks knew the importance of celebrating the natural world. From the gentle giants on acres of pasture lands to curious critters in the fields, Ellie remained unwavering in her profound amazement at our fellow species. This passion soon evolved into her calling—to champion compassion for all living creatures on our beautiful planet. What better space to spread the message of kindness than at a sanctuary for animals where residents live their lives in peace and dignity? She founded The Gentle Barn to do just that, and in this heartwarming interview with VEGWORLD, Ellie inspires us all to reevaluate society’s depiction of what it means to love animals.
VW: Starting at the very beginning, do you recall your first deep connection with an animal?
EL: In my book, My Gentle Barn : Creating a Sanctuary Where Animals Heal and Children Learn to Hope, I write about my earliest memories of bonding with animals. I remember sneaking out the back door of my synagogue to the field behind where I was much more content to play and explore than sit still and quiet inside. The field must have been on the migration path of the monarch butterfly because in a few minutes I was covered from head to toe in monarchs. My instinct was to hold still and quiet…..I had become an invited guest in their vibrant dance. I will forever remember the feeling of being part of them and vowing that I would do anything to protect and love them. Those monarchs planted the first seeds of my obsession and passion for animals and nature. My childhood best friend, my dog Simon, was also a vital inspiration for me. I deeply believe that he would have done anything for me, and I know I would have done anything for him.
VW: Since its inception, the Gentle Barn has been a happy haven to many wonderful residents! Can you tell us about the very first resident who found their home at the Gentle Barn?
EL: I found Mary the goat in an abusive petting zoo; she asked for help, and she set me on my path to healing and saving animals, bringing them home to my half-acre backyard for sanctuary. Mary reminded me of my purpose and childhood dream of starting The Gentle Barn.
VW: It wasn’t that long before you opened two more properties! What fueled that decision and do you have plans on growing to a nationwide sanctuary initiative?
EL: When we heard about a cow who was missing a foot and going to slaughter, we saved him, healed him at the UT Knoxville animal hospital, and opened a Gentle Barn for him in Tennessee. Folks may have heard of the tremendous bravery of six cows who escaped a slaughterhouse in Missouri and ran for their lives. Though they were captured to be sent back to the slaughterhouse, the public outcry advocating for their release was enormous! The slaughterhouse owner said a sanctuary could come and get them. No one came forward so we decided to open a Gentle Barn in Missouri for them, where the St. Louis Six currently reside. These animals not only created our second and third locations, but their stories reached millions of people and opened millions of hearts to compassion and veganism. We have plans to start a Gentle Barn in New York next, so stay tuned for updates on that!
VW: Can you walk us through the different approaches that The Gentle Barn takes to help their residents heal from their trauma and learn to trust our species?
EL: Each animal upon arrival is quarantined for thirty days until we know they are healthy. During that time, we sing to them, read out loud to them, meditate with them, and do any healing that we need to allow them to settle in, get used to us, and feel safe. Once they are done with quarantine, we partner them with other animals and continue their emotional and physical healing with acupuncture, massage therapy, chiropractic, energy healing, and nutritional supplements like Sun Chlorella, Jill and Joan CBD, and Puremedy healing salve. Feeling better physically, being fed on time each day, seeing our love for the other animals, and giving them as much time as they need, help them learn to trust us and see that people can be good, and the world can be kind.
VW: Among the many stories of resilience and learning to love and trust humans, if you had to pick just one, whose story of healing impacted you the most?
EL: We have so many remarkable stories, but I think the story of the St Louis Six in Missouri stands out because they were literally inside a slaughterhouse and chose to live. Once At The Gentle Barn, they went through a long recovery process to learn to forgive the past and trust us. Eventually, they let their pasts go and not only trusted us, but now allow people to brush, pet, and cuddle them, and even host cow hug therapy sessions where they are now healing humans!
VW: Through the years you’ve worked with these remarkable beings who have come through unthinkable hardships. Given that, how have your views on our relationship with animals changed?
EL: I think animals are the most resilient and remarkable creatures and I am deeply honored to know them. Animals have always been my best teachers, healers, and friends. I have always loved them, but they have all shown me that we are all the same, though we look different. They are far more intelligent, intuitive, and wise than most realize. They have shown me that we are alike in every way that truly matters, with the same ability for happiness, sadness, fear, love, and the desire to live a life free from harm. Over the last 23 years at The Gentle Barn, it has become crystal clear that animals have the same capacity to love, the same want for friendship and love, and the same desire to raise their babies. They enjoy and hold dear the same things we do.
VW: What kinds of programs does Gentle Barn offer so members of the public can learn, grow, and connect with the “personhood” of the residents?
EL: The Gentle Barn is open to the public on Sundays so people can hug the cows, cuddle the turkeys, hold the chickens, give the pigs tummy rubs, and hear the animals’ stories of resilience. During the week we host private tours, school field trips, and cow hug therapy sessions where people can learn, heal, and find hope.
VW: Why was it important to you to offer programs for children and those less fortunate or privileged than others? Do you ever face criticism that you are still “using animals”? If so, how do you respond to that?
EL: The Gentle Barn is not about healing animals versus humans, it is about a circle of healing where we are all connected, and we are healing each other. We save animals, heal them, and if and when they are ready, we partner with them to heal people. In turn, the people are kinder to animals. The animals are never expected to do anything at The Gentle Barn except live their very best lives. But what I find is that the animals want to help heal others. The cows are not taught to give out hugs, they want to, and they bring profound hope to people. The turkeys are not trained to cuddle, they choose to, and they bring people to tears. Once the animal is healed, they either choose on their own to give love to people, or they don’t, and either way is ok with us.
If anyone says that we are using animals for something, I will say that they are right. We are working alongside our animal ambassadors to share their stories and create interactions that open hearts and change minds about animals and how we treat them in our society. But I would also say that I believe that the animals are as upset about the state of the world as we are, and the animals are just as passionate about this cause as we are. Just as I am destined to do this work, I believe that each one of our animal ambassadors is called to The Gentle Barn for a reason. Some are called to transition in our arms with dignity, some are brought here to heal and be set free, and others are called here to be ambassadors and change the hearts of humanity alongside us. And if they are saying that the animals are not choosing to do this work, they clearly have never been to The Gentle Barn where the love and dedication between human and animal is palpable!
VW: That was so beautifully said! Going off of that, do you feel these experiences with the animal ambassadors can change the way society connects with animals and vice versa?
EL: Yes! We have a huge rate of helping guests evolve to veganism. People can learn all about the environment, animals, and their own health, but the minute they can look into the eyes of the animals at The Gentle Barn, hug, hold, and interact with them, and have that personal heart connection with them. That’s when it all makes sense, and they are called towards a greater empathy.
VW: We’d love to hear your perspective on the efficacy of sanctuaries in the animal advocacy movement.
EL: Sanctuaries play a vital part in the animal advocacy movement—not only because they are saving the animals’ lives, but more importantly, they are telling their stories, raising awareness within the community, and offering people the unique personal, intimate interaction, rooted in respect and kindness, that changes a person forever.
VW: What has the feedback from guests been like? Especially regarding their views on animals used in various exploitative industries for human consumption.
EL: At The Gentle Barn we meet people where they are at, have great compassion for them, and share our message very gently. This approach helps our guests be less defensive and more open. It also helps The Gentle Barn seem more inclusive, inviting, and safe for everyone. This in turn helps The Gentle Barn be a beloved steward for animals in the community. In fact, we get about 1,000 people visiting each week, spanning all 3 locations!
VW: How do you distinguish yourselves in the eye of the public as not offering a “petting zoo” experience?
EL: We invite people to interact with animals respectfully. They may hug the cows, cuddle the turkeys, hold the chickens, pet the sheep and goats, while learning about the animals’ stories of resilience in a way they have never had before. We don’t mind if people come in expecting a petting zoo experience, because once they are here, they get to hear the animals’ stories, fall in love with them, eat a delicious vegan meal, and have their hearts opened wide. They are also told that an animal might not want to be pet or held and emphasize the importance of respecting their boundaries. They organically see that, unlike the petting zoo experience, everything we do is about the animals and they always come first! Every animal resident has a docent who ensures that the resident is approached on their terms. Guests learn about body language, how the animals communicate, and that animals are not here to serve us. Rather, they are here to live their own best lives and it is our job to respect and honor their wishes.
VW: Thinking ahead into the future where we learn to coexist in peace with our fellow creatures and critters, do you think farmed animal rescues will still have their place in society? What would a world of this harmonious existence look like to you?
EL: Yes, in the perfect peaceful world that we are working so hard to create, there will still be sanctuaries hopefully in every town, because that is where animals who were formerly farmed will live. These sanctuaries will replace factory farms and private working farms. But instead of eating, wearing, and enslaving them, people of this new world will have reverence for all animals and will come regularly to sanctuaries to honor, celebrate and love animals.
VW: We adore the mission and important work that you and the Gentle Barn family do. How can our followers support your ventures?
EL: We need help doing the very wonderful work that we are doing. If you can, we would appreciate donations of any amount on our website. Many of our patrons sponsor care for our beloved residents as well. You can also follow us on all social media platforms @thegentlebarn, and of course, visit a Gentle Barn nearest to you!
About Ellie Laks
Ellie Laks is founder of The Gentle Barn, a national non-profit animal rescue and sanctuary with three locations across the U.S. (Los Angeles, Nashville and St. Louis). The Gentle Barn rescues and provides a safe, loving home to at-risk animals and welcomes the public to come and interact with them and experience their gentle, loving natures. Ellie is an expert in healing orphaned, sick and traumatized animals using a mix of Western medicine, holistic healing modalities, holding therapy and more, like puppies with Parvo and calves from veal crates. At the Gentle Barn, she has arranged for hundreds of thousands of veterans, seniors, victims of domestic violence, children in foster care and from underserved communities, and people in recovery to experience healing and joy through contact with the animals. Since its inception, The Gentle Barn has saved thousands of animals and been host to over 500,000 people. Ellie’s latest initiative is a fundraising campaign that aims to provide hay for all 200 rescue animals housed and cared for by the non-profit sanctuary.
Ellie is a TEDx speaker, presenter at animal rights conferences, environmental conferences, eco feminist summits and more, and is eloquent on topics related to motivation, building compassion and turning your passion into purpose.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Shriya is an Animal Rights activist, VEGWORLD writer, and Founder of Nourish by Shriya– her Vegan Hospitality Consulting Service that helps businesses attract the growing plant-based community. She is a mentor with Animal Activism Mentorship, enjoys volunteering at The Gentle Barn in Missouri, and currently lives in St. Louis with her pooch, Halley.
God bless you all for saving these animals 🙏❤️✝️